Saint Monday

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I am celebrating Saint Monday and will be back tomorrow.

Matt

PS, I am finally getting round to (a long awaited) update of the static pages on the site. Hopefully be finished in the next few weeks and will keep you informed of my progress in the blog.

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Thoughts From a Deck Chair

Firstly, a bit of news…

1) Because I am no longer using “The Slow Coach” title, I have changed my twitter account, you can now follow my random, sporadic, few and far between tweets, then you can now follow me at www.twitter.com/tortoisemind or click on the Social Profile button up there on the sidebar.

2) A bit more business minded? Connect with me on LinkedIn. My LinkedIn profile covers everything I do, from the Slow work to the NLP training and consultancy, to the mentoring I do with other coaches and therapists. You can connect with me at www.linkedin.com/in/mattcaulfield, or use the Social profile button.

3) Still not a member of my facebook page? Well, that hasn’t changed, what are you waiting for?! Join me here or, again, use the Social buttons up there on the right.

I think that is about it…

When I started this blog, way back on a free wordpress site, it was called “Thoughts from a Deck Chair” and was really just my musings, thoughts, ideas and observations on life, the Slow Movement and how I was incorporating it into my daily life. Somewhere along the way, it morphed into more of a “how to” blog, giving hints tips and ideas. I think I was a bit scared, to be honest, that people wouldn’t be that interested in my ramblings and wouldn’t read, so I had to try and offer something useful to keep my readers happy (and coming back for more and recommending me/linking to my posts, etc). I think I got a bit carried away after reading lots of books on how to be a successful blogger that told me that I had to offer advice, or hints and tips, etc.

But, after a bit of feedback, readers seem to want to hear about my ideas, musing and goings on as much as hints and tips about what you need to do to Slow Down.

So, I endeavour, from now on, to give you regular updates about my attempts to slow down as well as the hitns and tips, etc.

What do you think? Please feel free to leave a comment letting me know what you want me to write about!

Matt

A Bit of News…

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There are going to be a few changes around here. Number 1 is that I am stopping using “The Slow Coach” title (for a variety of reasons), so you will start to see changes reflecting that. Also, I have a new coaching venue, which will cause me to stop celebrating Saint Monday, which is a shame (but when better to coach people to slow down than on Saint Monday?!), and a few other things.

Unfortunately I am tad hectic over the next few days, there will be a proper blog entry tomorrow though, and all of these changes may take a little time. I hope to continue as (a) normal as possible service through this though.

Speak to you soon

Matt

Slow Blogging Part 2: A Rejection of Immediacy

As I am sure some of you may have noticed I have not had the opportunity to update this blog as regularly as usual over the last few weeks (I usually endeavour to update it 3-4 times a week, I don’t “do” weekends and I always celebrate Saint Monday!), some weeks I will have a theme that I develop over a series of blogs and therefore plan ahead and other weeks I just write whatever comes into my mind. Some weeks I prep ahead and write several entries in one go to post at later date, other weeks I just sit down each morning and after I have checked my emails etc, write down whatever comes into my mind. Some days I will have some idea straight away, other days I will not have a clue and have to refer to some notes or ideas I have scrawled in the past. Some times it can take me 5 minutes to write an entry, other days it can take all day. I am rubbish at proof reading and will often post entries with stupid mistakes!

As you can see, I am not what you call a “problogger”. I am “sloblogger” (thanks to Todd Sieling, who I got the term from, although after doing a bit of digging there are a lot of other “slobloggers” out there).

So what is the difference between a problogger and Slow Blogger?  Well, number one, is that Slow Bloggers reject the idea of immediacy as Tom Sieling dsays “It happenes when it happens”, rather than trying to write a blog entry each day, just for the sake of writing a blog entry. Carl Honore recently wrote in his blog about how most bloggers are usually a pretty fast bunch (click here to read it). We slobloggers write only when we have something to say, reflect on our writing and avoid the kneejerk reaction to post for the sake of posting or because we are expected to post, or because that is what we have been told we should do. We don’t “chase the news” and try and be the first to write about something, but consider, ponder, contemplate, research and offer (hopefully) a more measured (and interesting) entry.

(Not that I am saying traditional bloggers are in anyway substandard or that sloblogging is better than traditional blogging, it is just a different way of doing things! Some probloggers out there write excellent posts on a very regular basis! Can I stop digging now?!)

To illustrate how posting on a less regular basis works incredibly well, Tim Ferris, author of the “The 4-hour Work Week: Escape the 9-5, Live Anywhere and Join the New Rich” (I highly recommend it, if you haven’t read it already) writes a very successful blog and he does not update it regularly at all! See this entry of his to see his blogging strategy and listen to how he blows apart common myths about the need to blog regularly to be successful.

Remember Slow, in all its forms, is about Quality NOT Quantity.

I am working on a couple of themes that I started a while ago, but got waylaid on the that I will be running on here over the next few weeks: Slow Work and Mindfulness. Stay tuned!

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